Have you fallen in love with someone sooner than expected? Are you committed to someone before you’ve even started dating? You might’ve already had a relationship with them on the astral plane which will explain the commitment you've already made.
In society's ideal world, here’s how the timeline of a relationship is meant to go:
1) You meet
2) You go on a date
3) You go on more dates to get to know each other
4) You start dating each other exclusively and it becomes a boyfriend/girlfriend situation.
5) You get engaged, married, buy a house, have kids and live happily ever after
Sounds like an easy enough formula to follow right? Why is it then that some people find themselves skipping the first few steps and going straight to step 4 or 5?
Time and time again I hear of people falling in love before a relationship has even taken off; it’s more common than we’re led to believe as no one wants to admit that they’ve fallen head-over-heels in love with someone they hardly even know. I believe that there’s a very good explanation for this kind of predicament though...
In these types of loved-up cases, one or both of the people involved have connected with the other person on the astral plane. The astral plane allows for intimacy, love, sex, communication and a type of dating without the restrictions of our dating checklist. The way a person looks, their job, bank balance, family, baggage, sexual health, whether they say or do the right things, societal pressure…none of this gets in the way of dating on the astral plane, so it is a very pure form of meeting and being with people. And when this astral dating has happened before dating in the physical realm it can cause problems if both people haven’t retained the experience.
In the majority of these cases, there’s a strong intuitive, psychic or clairvoyant/clairsentient bent to one or both of the people involved. Without this ability, it’s hard to comprehend and/or remember the connection that has taken place on the astral plane.
It can be a wholly unfair situation especially since women are, in general, more attuned to the astral realm than men; this simply comes down to inherent feminine energy being highly intuitive and masculine energy being heavily grounded.
So, what usually happens in these scenarios is that a commitment will take place in the astral realm but translate very poorly into the physical realm. One partner will feel committed to this connection already and the other person will still be viewing it as a new, fresh, uncommitted, getting-to-know-each-other situation. As you can see this can lead to an absolute disaster of a scenario as one person throws their all into the connection early on and the other person freaks out or feels pressured even though they haven’t committed yet. Heartbreak and disappointment usually follow.
Just because you have connected with someone in the astral realm it doesn’t mean that there must be a strong, long-term commitment in the physical realm. Quite the opposite in fact. The astral plane is there for us to forge deeper bonds with numerous people, all of which help humans create communities and helps humanity grow and survive. Without astral plane connections, we would find it hard to sympathise with others, break through people’s personal space/bubbles (a.k.a. auric fields) and hug them, talk in a smooth and free manner, or ever have sex with someone. The astral plane provides us with connections without bounds before actually getting to know someone on the physical plane.
Learning to recognise this and your ability to connect on the astral plane with others, even after a simple gaze across the room in a bar, is important as it can explain a lot when it comes to the patterns you might take on while dating. If you find yourself falling head over heels in love after a Tinder date, getting a sense of guilt when innocently dating multiple people or going crazy about your flirtatious, friend’s husband/wife chances are you’re a serial astral dater and have connected with them previously in the astral plane.
Not all love is based on the physical plane. It doesn’t mean that it means nothing but it does make it easier to break the hold that it can have on you. Astral plane connections are for our survival, they aren’t there to bring us true love every single time.